Tuesday, October 6, 2009

Is it ok to ask my boyfriend to come back from working at summer camp if he's given me reason?

*You can view my previous question if you'd like.



After finding a few things in his car that are girly, such as lip gloss.. hair clip.. gummy candies etc.. I do not feel safe w/him there. This upset me and I told him about it. He said "I don't have to answer these questions, it's ridiculous".



Am I being a b*tch if I tell him he needs to come back or we're through? We have been dating for 2 years and he's been talking about proposing.. but I don't know.



Is it ok to ask my boyfriend to come back from working at summer camp if he's given me reason?

Don't jumb to conclusions and don't make him come back.. maybe is just misunderstanding .. ask him to explain to you but dont be paranoid.. if u r convinced he is cheating and he doesnt admit then break up with him but dont ask him to leave the camp..If he loves you he will do it by himself.. But remember.. maybe it's not what you think.. try to talk to him and get him to explain.. ask him to be honest with you.. I think you will realise if he is lying..



Is it ok to ask my boyfriend to come back from working at summer camp if he's given me reason?

If I found "girly things" in his car I wouldn't want him coming back period..Sounds like he is enjoying camp. if you get my meaning..Proposing ..run as fast as you can in the opposite direction!!!!!!!!! You can find someone who will be true to you ..always



Is it ok to ask my boyfriend to come back from working at summer camp if he's given me reason?

found girly things?



as long as its not like panties



hes prolly not cheating



and besides



gummy candies,



are awesome not girly



Is it ok to ask my boyfriend to come back from working at summer camp if he's given me reason?

Based on the information that you've given here, I can see why you have reason to believe that he may be cheating.. I wouldn't think much differently if I were in your shoes. I'm not suggesting that he is or is not cheating on you, but the items that are being left behind in his car could and very well may be completely innocent.. His responce to your confrontation is what puts me in question and makes me think otherwise, however... All I can say is this.. Chances are, if you suspect that he's cheating, he probably is.. Usually it's a safe bet to go with your gut. That being said and if your gut is telling you that he's a two timing snake (and granted if I were you) I would say screw asking him to quit his job and come home, kiss the idea of a future proposal goodbye and move onward. You'll find better and he'll get what he has coming to him. He's not worthy of your tears, sister.. Best of luck to you..

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